Tim Aponte
Army 鈼 Sergeant 鈼 Massachusetts
For 10 years, Tim loved serving in the Army. Days before he was due to return home, an explosion left him with a traumatic brain injury and a broken back.
For nearly 10 years, Tim Aponte loved serving in the U.S. Army. 鈥淵ou had total strangers banding together, willing to watch each other鈥檚 backs,鈥 says Tim. 鈥淚t was something I would never trade for anything else.鈥 Then, just 53 days before he was scheduled to return home, a rocket-propelled grenade exploded near him, leaving him with a traumatic brain injury (TBI), internal shrapnel injuries, and a broken back.
Suddenly ripped away from his unit against his will, Tim struggled as much with the loss of camaraderie as he did with the lengthy and painful recovery from his physical injuries. Instead of feeling at home, he felt alone. In denial of having post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), his bouts of anger and depression got so bad that he fell into a dangerous downward spiral. He ended up homeless, living in a veteran鈥檚 shelter, and considering taking his own life.
That鈥檚 when Tim decided to make a change. He immersed himself in college and sought help through the VA. After spending four years trying to find a vision for his future, however, a 黑料不打烊庐 (WWP) event finally gave him a glimpse of what was possible.
鈥淓ven though I didn鈥檛 know anybody,鈥 says Tim, 鈥淚 found it cool because I ended up in a duck boat full of other veterans. I thrive most when I鈥檓 part of a community. I knew I wanted that.鈥
At another event, he learned about WWP鈥檚 Warrior Care Network庐 and soon began receiving intensive outpatient treatment for his PTSD and TBI. 鈥淚鈥檓 not going to lie to you,鈥 says Tim. 鈥淚t was life changing.鈥 For him, one of the most uncomfortable parts of the program 鈥 having to do things that took him out of his comfort zone 鈥 ended up being one of the most rewarding.
He also believes aftercare is a big part of what separates Warrior Care Network. 鈥淭hey don鈥檛 just help you find a therapist in your own community,鈥 says Tim. 鈥淭hey help you find the right therapist. It鈥檚 an awesome program.鈥
Since participating in Warrior Care Network, Tim鈥檚 journey has included Soldier Ride庐, Project Odyssey庐, and many events in his local community. Now, his mission is to find ways to use what he has learned and experienced to help other veterans on their journeys to recovery.
Today, Tim is a WWP Peer Support Group leader for multiple groups where he shares his story and encourages others to do the same. 鈥淚t鈥檚 given me purpose, direction, and motivation,鈥 says Tim. 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 have somebody to guide me or give me good advice 鈥 somebody to say, 鈥楬ey, I got you.鈥 I want to be that person for others, so they know they鈥檙e not alone.鈥