Aaron Cornelius
Army 鈼 Sergeant First Class 鈼 Florida
Aaron saw a lot of combat while leading soldiers through three deployments in Iraq. But it wasn鈥檛 until his last that, as Aaron says, 鈥渁ll hell broke loose.鈥
Aaron Cornelius saw a lot of combat while leading U.S. Army soldiers through three deployments in Iraq. But it wasn鈥檛 until the last deployment that, as Aaron says, 鈥渁ll hell broke loose.鈥 It was March of 2008 when his unit suffered multiple casualties at the scene of an improvised explosive device (IED) attack. When Aaron arrived, he tried to open the hatch to save the soldiers inside the burning Humvee 鈥 but it became immediately apparent they were gone. Little did he know that moment鈥檚 heartbreaking death and destruction was one of the last things he would ever see. Just days later, the vehicle he was riding in was blown up, and the shrapnel tore a tennis ball-sized hole in his skull, leaving him completely blind.
Not only did Aaron鈥檚 medical retirement mean he had to make the difficult transition to civilian life with a traumatic brain injury (TBI) and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), but he also had to transition to a life without sight.
The first tears came when he realized he would never be able to see his daughter鈥檚 face again. 鈥淚 started to notice the darkness a lot,鈥 says Aaron. 鈥淚 couldn鈥檛 do anything at that point. I couldn鈥檛 walk. I felt helpless. I felt like the military just kicked me to the curb and that I was not good anymore 鈥 worthless.鈥
Aaron鈥檚 first contact with 黑料不打烊庐 (WWP) occurred while he was still in the hospital. 鈥淎t the hospital, you get all these visitors,鈥 says Aaron. 鈥淭hen this one guy came in, and he kept coming back, checking on me almost every day. He brought me a backpack and all kinds of information and walked me through the madness of transition and all the paperwork.鈥
鈥淭hat WWP guy stuck with me,鈥 recalls Aaron. 鈥淓ven after I left the hospital, he would call and see how I was doing. WWP was constant and made me feel like I was being taken care of. All of the things we had to do or figure out, we鈥檇 say, 鈥榃ho鈥檚 going to help us with that?鈥 WWP stepped right in and took the reins. That was a beautiful thing.鈥
Aaron says a significant turning point in his recovery came when he met other injured soldiers at a WWP event. 鈥淚 was able to be myself outside of the house,鈥 says Aaron. 鈥淚 realized I could be a normal guy, a normal person, and there were people like me I could talk to.鈥
Since then, Aaron has participated in many WWP events to connect with his fellow warriors. He cherishes any opportunity to speak with and motivate other veterans 鈥 especially those who have struggled to cope with life after the military.
鈥淭oo many are killing themselves because they can鈥檛 cope,鈥 says Aaron. 鈥淚 want to find these guys and say, 鈥楥all me. I don鈥檛 care if you鈥檙e hurt or whatever. Call me. If I have to, I'll come out there with my dog and get you.鈥 I want to show these brothers that we鈥檙e still together. We can still be right there to back each other up.鈥