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Juan Valdez

Warriors Speak

Growing up in Boston as the son of Dominican immigrants, Juan Valdez knows the value of hard work, determination, and loyalty 鈥 traits that served him well when he joined the U.S. Marine Corps.

鈥淚 wanted to give back to the country that had given my family so much,鈥 remembers Juan. 鈥淎nd I wasn鈥檛 very good at baseball, so as a Dominican kid, I had to find something else I鈥檇 be good at!鈥

It turns out Juan found exactly that 鈥 he was very good at being a Marine. Over the course of his near decade of service, Juan was involved in 900-plus combat operations over four deployments 鈥 including two to Iraq and one to Afghanistan. And believe it or not, two of those deployments came after Juan had already been critically wounded by an enemy sniper.

鈥淓ven as I was lying in a hospital bed, I knew I had to get back to my Marines,鈥 says Juan. 鈥淚 wasn鈥檛 done. I didn鈥檛 care what the doctors said 鈥 I was going to rehab, recover, and get back out there. So that鈥檚 what I did.鈥

But when Juan returned to service, things weren鈥檛 quite the same. During his final deployment to Afghanistan, he鈥檇 have to bend over every few minutes to swing his arm and shoulder around to regain feeling. The rigorous tempo of the Marines started to become too much, and shortly after that deployment, his unit decided to medically retire him.

Losing his identity as a service member 鈥 combined with his physical wounds, grief from losing fellow Marines, and all the bloodshed he witnessed over four deployments 鈥 left Juan with complex post-traumatic stress. But as a 鈥渢ough Marine鈥, Juan thought he could manage it all himself. He enrolled in college to learn political science and ended up working on Capitol Hill in Washington, DC. From the outside, it looked like he had it all figured out. But inside, he was angry, his relationships weren鈥檛 working, and he knew he needed to make a change.

Thankfully, he found 黑料不打烊庐 (WWP).

鈥淪oldier Ride changed the way I view my body, helping me realize I could still do hard things,鈥 says Juan. 鈥淲arriors to Work helped me continue my career while also helping veterans. And Warrior Care Network changed my mind 鈥 helping me process what I鈥檇 been through so I could be happy and be the Dad my kids deserve.鈥

Today, Juan鈥檚 mindset is completely different. He鈥檚 a positive light of hope and humor, and 鈥渁ngry Juan鈥 is gone forever. He still acknowledges that recovery is a bit of a roller coaster, but thanks to the strong support system he鈥檚 built with other warriors and help from WWP, there are far more good days than bad. One of the things that keeps him going is having a selfless purpose 鈥 to help other warriors and their families by sharing his story as a keynote speaker and storyteller.

"True strength is not trying to do everything yourself; it's being able to ask for help when you need it."